I am 55 year old a U.S. Navy, submarine veteran, dad, husband, and sarcasm aficionado. I also identify as a bisexual bear. The preceding is what I am, not who I am. I am me and that never changes. Everything else is fluid baby.

  • LGBTQ+,  Masterbation,  Blue Balls

    Dear Diary

    WHAT? No this isn’t a diary! Hell, it is marginally a blog. Marginally because I don’t post for long periods of time and I am not after the almighty LIKE, or validation of the masses of the internet. So update, I have been hanging out a lot lately on an LGBTQ+ forum. It has soothed some of my inner demons. I have made many friends and have come to further terms with my sexuality internally. My eventual goal is to come out to my wife and kind of leave it at that. Once out I plan on exploring local Bear and Gay hangouts, though not for sex, though I REALLY…

  • Bi,  Definitions

    My Grotto

    First posts are sometimes the hardest because what the hell are you supposed to post about? Yes, you have an idea about what you want and you know you have to get it out of your head before it implodes, but when it comes time to write it down, it’s gone. POOF! So, here we are in my new home. My grotto, my Ninja Stealth, super secret home, but not so secret as to not have it out there in the WORLD WIDE WEB. Is it even referred to as the web anymore? It is secret in that I am not out to all, but I am to that point…