Bi,  Definitions

My Grotto

First posts are sometimes the hardest because what the hell are you supposed to post about? Yes, you have an idea about what you want and you know you have to get it out of your head before it implodes, but when it comes time to write it down, it’s gone. POOF!

So, here we are in my new home. My grotto, my Ninja Stealth, super secret home, but not so secret as to not have it out there in the WORLD WIDE WEB. Is it even referred to as the web anymore? It is secret in that I am not out to all, but I am to that point that if asked directly, I am not going to lie about it. This site is Ninja Secret because there is a certain modicum of anonymity to a random blog. This; however, is not a challenge to anyone. I know as well as any if a person really wants to find the author of a blog, it really isn’t that hard.

If you haven’t read my about page, then let me surprise you here. I am a BEAR. No, not a Yogi, or grizzly type of bear, but a bisexual man that identifies as a bear in the Gay Bear sub culture. Specifically, I am a Daddy Bear type. I will let you google that. I don’t want to take away all the fun.

I am NOT your stereotypical flaming gay, type of bisexual, again see the term Bear. I am a beer drinking, BBQ’ing, gun toting, outdoors type of man. I am also bi, meaning I like my alter persons male and female. I am married to a female I love dearly, but I also desire males.

So welcome to my grotto. If you have read this far congratulations. There is no prize, but you do have my thanks.

I am 55 year old a U.S. Navy, submarine veteran, dad, husband, and sarcasm aficionado. I also identify as a bisexual bear. The preceding is what I am, not who I am. I am me and that never changes. Everything else is fluid baby.