• LGBTQ+ Glossary of Terms

    I would love to say I came up with these all on my own. I will say that I intend to add to them and enhance them. That being said, I want to make sure I credit my sources if they are not me. The majority of these definitions come from the Montclair State University, LGBTQ Center: https://www.montclair.edu/lgbtq-center/lgbtq-resources/terminology/ A/Ace: Colloquial abbreviation of “asexual”. Often used to refer to asexual people in a similar manner as “gay” or “straight” are used to refer to homosexual or heterosexual people. Ace Spectrum: The grouping of asexual, demisexual, and gray-asexual under a single umbrella of related sexual orientation. Aesthetic Attraction: Attraction to someone’s appearance, without…

  • Bi,  Definitions,  Bear

    Growing Into My Self Realization

    Alright, so it has been some time since I accepted my self COMPLETELY as a bisexual male, and identified more as a gay Bear for what I have to call my gay side. One disturbing thing that I have run into in this culture of enlightenment in the GBLTQ+++ community is an unacceptance of the bisexual male as a contributing and caring part of the community. It isn’t an overall feeling from all, but it seems to be prevalent in online gay groups and forums. See, the thing is with me, I truly am split. I desire women for women’s sake and men for men’s sake. I really have no…

  • Bi,  Definitions

    My Grotto

    First posts are sometimes the hardest because what the hell are you supposed to post about? Yes, you have an idea about what you want and you know you have to get it out of your head before it implodes, but when it comes time to write it down, it’s gone. POOF! So, here we are in my new home. My grotto, my Ninja Stealth, super secret home, but not so secret as to not have it out there in the WORLD WIDE WEB. Is it even referred to as the web anymore? It is secret in that I am not out to all, but I am to that point…