WHAT? No this isn’t a diary! Hell, it is marginally a blog. Marginally because I don’t post for long periods of time and I am not after the almighty LIKE, or validation of the masses of the internet. So update, I have been hanging out a lot lately on an LGBTQ+ forum. It has soothed some of my inner demons. I have made many friends and have come to further terms with my sexuality internally. My eventual goal is to come out to my wife and kind of leave it at that. Once out I plan on exploring local Bear and Gay hangouts, though not for sex, though I REALLY…